I suppose PR is a bit too religious for gay bars? My first time was an accident, my then girlfriend had fallen asleep and after a while we both just kind of knew.

Just to let you know PR in not that religious, there's a lot of gay bars & gay peoples too in all cities here, you should come, you would love it....

Any gay male saunas around, they would be perfect for a BJ ?

I've met a few guys on adam4adam.com

I hope your search proves to be fruitful and tasty too !

would love to try it with a younger guy at least 8 inches.

I know this is an old post, however, always thought about this. I have never had an idea of how to approach this situation. I thought that maybe an opportunity would somehow just happen. Well it has not and I do not see a way for it to happen. Honestly, I am not attracted to men and never think about anyone specific. It is only in my mind. I want it but have no idea how it would ever happen. Only one guy I can remember that I used to see in the shower at the gym that I really wanted, but, with his clothes on I was not attracted to him. Beautiful cock indeed that I often thought about wanting to suck. I don't know how to ever make it happen?

Once again, I am amazed at the number of men who have "NEVER" been with another guy but post on this site?????????????? Are there that many "curious" men or are ALL men curious about sucking another guy's cock???

Try going to an ABS (that's Adult Book Store) with glory holes and see what happens. Bars and clubs are good if you're experienced but not for the "Newbe". An ABS gives you the chance to see cocks face-to-face so you can just jerk it a little, see it and if you can get the nerve, take a quick taste. Also, you can hook up with one of the many men that has to be near you and be honest with him.

Based on what I've read here, there hundreds of guys that have also never sucked a cock but post pictures of themselves naked, hard and some jerking off for all to see. Maybe you can hook up with one that's just as nervous or "curious" as yourself so there should be less pressure. You can both learn together. Oh, and by the way, it's great, fun and very sexy!!!.

My brother was first. We were 13 and 15 and were just fooling around. No one was home so we had the house to our selves. I had found a porn mag and pulled it out and started to look at the pics. My brother sure liked looking at it also. He pulled it out and so did I. We were having a good time looking and touching, then Dad walked in. He said can I join in? I said oh yes. He pulled his out and was it big. I took hold of it and he told me to kiss it. My bro and I both did. I started to suck it and oh it was so much fun. Didn't take long and he started to cum in my mouth. I thought he was peeing, but it was cum. It really tasted good. I have had several loads but his was and still the best. Just the taste was great. I have sucked several even my brother. He is good at it also.

Maybe a mentor can help you...

I feel the same way....I would love to suck a cock and have not found one yet....

You can go the glory hole route. In the right place, a cock will appear for you to suck. If you do a good job he will give you his cum