I'm in the same boat. I'll watch alittle female porn, granny, and big floppy tits , to get me going but I masturbate to gay, bi, CD and trans and mostly mature or older male porn. Something about cocks I can't get enough of.

From my experiences I feel it's fairly normal. I think as men get older and sex at home goes away, we look elsewhere. Hooking up with females can get messy, too much drama. Sex with guys is more about just finding pleasure and release. Usually a lot less drama.

Personally, I have gone from completely heterosexual to bisexual and now probably more gay. I just love sex with men!

I also feel there are a lot of men of all ages that present as straight but are willing to let another man suck them and/or will fuck another man. As long as it stays secret.

I know I have no problem providing pleasure to a "supposedly" straight, married male.

I noticed the same thing. As I got older and stopped seeing other males naked (which I did regularly from at 11 to about my late forties or early fifties), I realized I missed the experience. It wasn't just seeing other guys naked, but also being seen by other guys naked. Just walking around letting my package bounce or just hang or just be seen was something I hadn't appreciated when it was a regular occurrence.

My wife has also quit having sex. I think it was mostly body-image issues, initially, but vaginal dryness is a factor and I can't argue that I'm not the hot young dude she knew in high school! So I started taking longer showers AND I discovered cam chats and various sites and, like others have mentioned, I found myself drawn as much, if not more, to photos or vids of males as I was to pics and vids of females. I still love seeing ANY nude photos, any age, any sex, but yes - I do now appreciate the male body far more than I ever did when I was younger.

I'd have to say I'm in the same boat and rowing (stroking?) in the same direction. Older, married, no sex sine 1999, started with Tranny porn about 10 years ago and now enjoy gay porn for the last few years to the point I've actually met a few guys recently. Would prefer an older woman, but it's the guys with the sex drive. And M/M is pretty good.

Being an older, never-married man, I find it much easier to get with another man than a woman. Although, in the past, when I was sexually active, I always got the woman to climax before me. She liked that a lot. But since that door is closed, I'll take a young stud anytime.

as i've gotten older, i've also gravitated to watching guy's fucking each other, either as gays or trans or CDs; and i often watch men jack off; for a while i did some cam sites with mutual jerking off. and i still love it when my wife sucks my cock.

As far as I am concerned, I find that older males really know how to take care of the needs of another male. And they don’t have any inhabations about stroking and sucking off another male!
Older males usually give the best BJ’s!
Paul

been bi all my life but now that i'm older i prefer sex with men i guess i went from bi to gay

I think that it’s perfectly normal for an older male to watch and enjoy watching guys stroking and sucking off other guys. I am in the same boat as most of you guys. My wife has no interest for sex anymore, and doesn’t like to watch me stroking myself.
So I too turned to watching guys enjoying M2M sexual pleasures!
It doesn’t mean that you are gay, just that you have interests in the pleasures of M2M exploring!
For me, I have actually turned to exploring the M2M mutual stroking pleasures!
Paul

Yup am in the same boat here. Although I remember fondly my teenage m2m fun it remained dormant for 40 odd years until I discovered sites like this.

Join the crowd

Harry, I too have gotten a stronger desire to explore my sexuality with other older males. Especially exploring M2M mutual stroking pleasures together!
Paul

As a straight, married male,69 years old, I have found that my desire to explore my sexuality with an experienced older male, to be a great turn on for me. Especially, wanting to explore M2M stroking pleasure.
I too love watching guys stroking themselves!
And guys giving guys a helping hand happy ending!
Paul

Well I’m still only curious but still feel much the same as you…

“Personally, I have gone from completely heterosexual to bisexual and now probably more gay. I just love sex with men!“ as you said… for me I’ve always had straight relationships, but in my mind, I’ve always been bisexual though I have zero experience with another guy. After all of these years and all of my fantasies being with men since the first time I played with myself, I feel more gay than ever. It’s all I’ve ever wanted and it’s taken all my life to finally admit it to myself. I’m not interested in coming out to the world, but the older I get the more I think I should have switched as a teenager. Not sure how to find the right guy, but it’s time to make it reality. I am that guy that presents as straight, I am willing to let another man suck my cock and i surly want to suck his and eat as much cum as I can. I might even fuck another man and let him fuck me. “ as long as it stays a secret” that is me 100%.

I’m ready and truly always have been. That’s why I say…” I am now probably more gay”. Except it’s not probably, I am more gay. I want it, I have ALWAYS! and it’s taken my whole life to admit it to myself. It is undeniable. Though I wish I would have acted on in in my prime, I’m still in good shape and take good care of myself. So, after crossing the 50 yard line, I’ll be better than ever. Not sure how to find what I’m looking for, so suggestions are welcome. I’m open to younger than me and maybe slightly older. Must be in good shape regardless…

I'll agree, I'm in my middle 70s and think a big hard cock with low hanging balls is super nice looking. Sometimes saying this gets me hard quicker than seeing a woman. I got wondering about myself am I really buy or day or what. I still love to cuddle with women when I can but it takes so much to get to meet one lead up to what you want. With a guy it seems like we know what each other wants and gets down to it and does our thing I don't feel as bad now being I hear some other guys on here the same way.

I agree, except I have never cuddled with a man yet.

The first cock I sucked other than my brothers was a man in his early 30s (I was 12) and he was our schools night janitor. I was hunting nitecrawlers on the schools football field and he came out for a smoke he asked if I was having any luck and I said not much a couple minutes later he said there is a big one right here between my lags , come grab it . I went over and he had his big cock out and was stroking it. I didn't run away and stood there watching him and he told me to stroke it for him . I took his cock in my hand and stroked it a few times then I just leaned over and took it in my mouth just like I did with my brothers , I suck up and down on it for maybe 5 minutes when he groaned grabbed my head and shot his cum in my mouth . All he said was , you've done this before and then he went back inside . I went back several times after that but he never came out again .

I've sucked off quite a few of my straight mates, four of them married. They know that all they have to do is knock on my door, and within minutes their cocks are going to be in my mouth. I'm always happy to oblige - wanking and sucking cocks is what I live for.