When I place my hands on his shoulders, it means drop to your knees and suck my daddy dick. When I put my hand on the back of his head, it means don't pull out, keep it in your mouth. When I put my fingers in his mouth and open it wider, it means no teeth, use your tongue. When I take his head in both my hands, it means I'm going to fuck his pretty face all the way into his throat. When he moans, I pat him on the head -- good hummer. When I pull out and give him a light slap on his cheek, it means turn around, get on your elbows and knees for anal pleasure. When I put my hands under his arms, he stands up and I go down. We use verbal communication too, but non-verbal signals are useful.

Do you use non-verbal communication? Some do, some don't. Some use a combination of non-verbal and verbal communication. There is no one right way and that's okay.