Before I start, this isn’t a call for sympathy, it’s more of an awareness story.
I had been looking on another gay site looking for cruising spots as I was feeling somewhat horny and could really do with a nice cock to swallow. I visited some washrooms not far from where I live, as I stood at the urinals a couple of guys came in and left so I gave up and went back to my car. On checking the site again on my phone I discovered that someone had added a comment to the page for this cruise site which said “there is only some old fat bloke in there”.
Now some of you may find that funny, but then may I suggest you look in the mirror, are you an Adonis? I think not.
All I’m saying is that you should consider the other person’s feelings, why couldn’t he have written “there was a guy in there but he wasn’t my type”?
Yes I have put on a few pounds since retiring, who doesn’t? And yes my dark brown hair is now silver/grey, but I’m still the same warm loving man I was a few years ago. I understand we don’t all tick the right boxes for everyone, but is that a reason to be rude and hurtful.
Sorry it’s gone on a bit, but the rant is now over