Not really, no.

If you like a guy and you want to make the first move, just reach out and tap him as you walk past.

If someone's not interested they're usually quite polite about it.

Just go and enjoy yourself. And let us know how you got on.

How did you get on at the sauna? Still working up the courage to try....

It's a mix of courage & also needing a day off work!

Eye contact in the sauna or steam room is a good start, chat to other guys about the fact that this is your first time and looking for a helping hand and as always if the attention is not to your liking all you need is to say a polite 'no thanks' and look for someone who you are happy to have some naked fun with.

Remember that not all guys are looking for anal sex, many just want to play with cock and suck on another guys cock and try to stay as long as you can to get your full value for money !

Pretty simple

Just relax and watch what is happening then if there is someone you are interested in then you can move and sit a little closer.

I like to gently rub a leg or butt and respond to his actions or reply

Make sure others notice you by playing with your cock !

I love sauna sex. Sometimes I make the first move sometimes the other guy does. Once in a while I'm rejected, but only rarely. Most guys are there for sex and want to play.

It's a good safe place to meet other guys looking for naked fun, you please yourself what type of sex you'd like to have, if the other man is willing to join you !

I've never done a sauna session, but if I do it will be like hanging out on the deck with naked men and boys. Chat, discuss, wine or beer, no tech allowed, if a cock of any size gets hard, play with it, help it cum. Cocks like to cum.

All that dampness and sweat invites anal pleasures. Many are not into that. I enjoy it.

Well a room like that with a lot naked men, something will cum up. Don't step in thinking it's just innocent pleasure like a dinner date. You will suck, be sucked, fuck and be fucked.

I'm starting to like the idea of the sauna, lol. My son is not going there, no way near ready for that!

I love to lie on my back in the sauna or steam-room and play with my cock, usually other guys give me a helping hand, or mouth !

Some saunas insist on wearing towels, others have a more relaxed attitude to nudity and may have naked sessions (which I much prefer). You may find that bottom guys often lie face down, ass up in the air in a private cublicle with the door open, indicating that they want to be fucked. I'm a top and masturbate my big hard erection, if guys see it and want it they will come over and suck it or ask to be fucked. If you don't fancy the guy, then a polite 'no thanks' usually suffices. In my local sauna sex happens in the hot sauna, steam room, video rooms, dark rooms, showers and private cubicles; the only plaes it's banned are the hot tub and internet room..

It seems that here in the UK gay/bi male saunas are fairly easy to find in most large cities !

I've had quite a few visits to various saunas now and if I'm in the mood to play theree's never usually a problem but expect a few rejections because at the end of the day not everybody will fancy you!

As a bottom guy I usually just make eye contact and smile if I like a guy or just stand still beside him, touch his arm and say hi

If a guy wants to come on to me I like the same kind of greeting as I've just described and normally I'll always stop unless the guy is pushy

I've masturbated naked a lot in a booth but unless a guy is experienced in visiting a sauna he may be uncertain if he should stand out and watch or join you.

If I want company from several guys at the same time I just stand among them and masturbate then walk into a booth and continue, thiis usually gets my message across!

And for those of you visiting for the first time, it is nerve wrecking I know but try to relax and enjoy what you'll see even if you don't have the confidence to join in-if you relax you WILL have fun and I can GUARANTEE that

If nothing else relax, drop your towel, masturbate and enjoy being watched!

I find that naked wanking in the video porn lounge works well for me !

Do they have places like this in the states?

I've only ever been to one once. There was one other guy going into the sauna the same time as me & it was just the two of us for a while. We spoke and smiled, sat down and moved closer and it didn't take long for the towels to be completely unwrapped. Nothing was forced and pretty soon I was sucking this guy off. Someone else came in and started to watch which turned me on even more. I ended up sucking off two men and then finally being wanked off myself by the second guy. Etiquette - don't cum on the bench or over someone who is not participating and don't force yourself on anyone.

Is it possible to find gay saunas across the States of America who allow them to have websites online ?

So far as I know most bath houses (gay saunas) have websites. I am going to one I found online. I went there once a while back, and got to suck a really hot big uncut back cock that just leaked precum for a while before he tried to drown me jizz. I sucked a couple of others while being watched. I am going to do it again today.

I am hoping to try the fuck sling. I want to get fucked so hard I cum.

I just let them walk past me and if there are interested he will run his hand over my body and we look at each other and go from there.
I also like going into the steam room and sand against the wall and bend over a bit. It's not long before someone puts there finger up my hole.

It's good fun.

I've been to a couple - generally, they will post rules of behavior, but as for connecting, that's up to you. Most places will allow you to walk around nude. One place provides a small chalk board for people to post what they are looking for. Other than that, it has been mostly to approach someone, and if you get approval, go for it.

last time at a gay sauna for me was at a male clothes optional camp in Tennessee... was 10 men, mostly middle age and there was this 'super cocksucker'..... a tall skinny guy waas on his knees ... worshiping penises & sucking off all the men..... right down the line .... looked like he lived off human semen full time.... i love to jack and watch this stuff so it was like sex heaven to me.... so hot to get in close and see him go down vigorously and empty man after man.... wow.... finally, i cum so big myself into my hand near him and he rose up off that big flared mushroom headed harry dude's cock to offer to lick my cum off my left hand..... i shook my head and told him "I had this" ... then I suck it off my hand myself and swallowed it ..... is not my regular thing...... he smiled and went back down on the big wet dick he had been working on.... meanwhile, i savored my own taste jerk jerk jerk then went back in the pool with the other nude dudes.....seriously, i have never seen anyone like THAT horny cocksucker before or since.... kisses on your pee crack, cg jerk jerk

Outside the US people are more relaxed about sex. Here we have "bath houses" and in some states gat saunas (not in MA) I did go to a bath house in RI and it was fantastic walking around naked with other horny naked men. I did learn on thing. They had a "dark shed" room where anything could happen. Seated men were sucking, standing guys were looking to get sucked.
This guy deep throated me and gave me such an amazing blowjob that I relaxed, enjoyed it and exploded in orgasm. I should have pulled out and left the room to cool off. I was so tired and satisfied that I could only stay a while longer before I took off.
Lesson; Don't cum with the first guy you touch!

The thought of being naked with other men, and to have the opportunity to play with many eager cocks gives me a raging hard on I've got pluck up the courage to go to a gay sauna one day.

just remember no means no-

I go to the gay section of my local nude beach ( Gunnison Beach, Sandy Hook NJ) on a regular basis. This is somewhat similar to in all-male spa as far as etiquette is concerned. All of the comments above are useful and are pretty much the same here.

If you walk past somebody that is eyeing you or you eye somebody and they smile back at you that is a good time to start some small talk just like any other beach or bar situation. If he is naked and starts to get a bit erect maybe swing your small talk to something more sexual such as remarking how nice his cock is or I love the smooth look around your cock and balls. Likewise if you start to get erect and he slides her hand over onto your thigh maybe help it along or move your body to let him know that you’re interested. Never force yourself on to somebody or if you do and he shakes his head stop what you’re doing and politely excuse yourself. Likewise if for some reason some guys do prefer to leave a small Speedo or short shorts on. Again go by the same as above and you’ll go wrong.

The best one is in this is happened to me where I saw a guy walking out into the water with a full-fledged hard on, he walked up to me started some small talk while rubbing the head of his cock on me. Eventually he turned my back to the beach dropped to his knees and started sucking my cock.

Bottom line is always be respectful of yourself and other people’s wishes. Never force yourself upon anybody but certainly know that everybody is there to enjoy themselves and the more the merrier.

Up until COVID19, I was a weekly visitor to Subway Sauna in Melbourne or Wet On Wellington. Most times, a casual hello to a guy who you want to play with will work. If he responds in conversation, then you take it from there. Other options I have found work is a gently brush of your hand on a guys cock or a bit of eye contact.
If you see a guy and he is not appealing, but he makes a suggestion to you, then just politely say "no thanks", I have had the occasional rude cunt that said "fuck off", but makes me wonder, why are you walking around naked in a gay sauna dickhead.