I agree its hard to find locals. Especially if in a rural area. Try some Apps that are location based like grinder or scruff. I found most on there are way too young for me, but have met a few over 40 men.

Also Adam4Adam is a site that had location based chat and search function..I agree on ABS not being the best place to meet people. Keep looking.

i was on my balcony at 4 am with just my open robe on and smoking my cigar with my dick in my hand when i noticed a man there across the parking lot in his condo sitting at his computer and smoking next to his open window .... he had enough lights on that when he got up and moved about .... ( his condo has a window wall) it was plain to see he was totally nude..... he is about 200 feet away (60 M) so i got my binoculars and since i have becum kind of obsessed about him.

he is likely nude all the time when home .... i never see anyone else there..

perhaps he is all alone all the time like so many of us horny men.

he is there almost every morning doing this ( much as i myself do) and spends hours sitting there and i can only assume he is looking at porn .... wish i knew if it were gay porn or what. i love it when he gets up to take a piss and i can see him better.....

this morning he passed in front of his big screen TV ( not porn) and i got a glimpse of his semi hard erection silhouetted for and instant..... what a thrill it was after watching him for so long .... he seems to have a nice one. mmmmm

he is older guy, bald and wears glasses much like me... is fun to know others are doing same as me so close bi.....

some times he stands leaning over the computer with his left hand on the desk and seems to be reaching between his legs with his right hand masturbating...... is typical of what i do when reaching my orgasm here looking at my screen....

last week my wife was sleeping in a different bed room because she had a bad cold and i was in my bedroom with my lights on where he could see me naked and hard , sometimes turning to show my ass, butt i doubt if he looked out the window...... wasn't much danger of others in his building seeing me at that time of day.... if my wife were not here i could move my table and chair in there and sit at my lap top for hours and maybe he wood be aware of me too .... guess that is just a dream ... cg

i was on my balcony at 4 am with just my open robe on and smoking my cigar with my dick in my hand when i noticed a man there across the parking lot in his condo sitting at his computer and smoking next to his open window .... he had enough lights on that when he got up and moved about .... ( his condo has a window wall) it was plain to see he was totally nude..... he is about 200 feet away (60 M) so i got my binoculars and since i have becum kind of obsessed about him.

he is likely nude all the time when home .... i never see anyone else there..

perhaps he is all alone all the time like so many of us horny men.

he is there almost every morning doing this ( much as i myself do) and spends hours sitting there and i can only assume he is looking at porn .... wish i knew if it were gay porn or what. i love it when he gets up to take a piss and i can see him better.....

this morning he passed in front of his big screen TV ( not porn) and i got a glimpse of his semi hard erection silhouetted for and instant..... what a thrill it was after watching him for so long .... he seems to have a nice one. mmmmm

he is older guy, bald and wears glasses much like me... is fun to know others are doing same as me so close bi.....

some times he stands leaning over the computer with his left hand on the desk and seems to be reaching between his legs with his right hand masturbating...... is typical of what i do when reaching my orgasm here looking at my screen....

last week my wife was sleeping in a different bed room because she had a bad cold and i was in my bedroom with my lights on where he could see me naked and hard , sometimes turning to show my ass, butt i doubt if he looked out the window...... wasn't much danger of others in his building seeing me at that time of day.... if my wife were not here i could move my table and chair in there and sit at my lap top for hours and maybe he wood be aware of me too .... guess that is just a dream ... cg

@creekgeek Maybe you get one of those small but powerful laser beam lights... that'll make him look out his window and you could just be standing there hopefully he don't shut down the view!! Best wishes, Enjoy

I am in the same boat, can not find a willing man that lives anywhere close by, one would think that in the second largest city in Indiana there would be some man that wants his cock sucked maybe once or twice a week!

I used to have a neighbor, actually, he was about 3 blocks away, that I would visit regularly. We had lots of fun! Unfortunately I moved away from there and have not found a "NEW" neighbor...yet.