It’d been suggested that I go on Adam4Adam and other similar sites to find what I was looking for: male sex partners. The “problem” of course is I don’t want to get divorced, as I am as happily married as can be given the circumstances. That leaves me the only option of seeing men when my wife is at work. I’m in sales and work out of my home office so I set my daily/weekly work schedule for the most part. The problem is finding the guy to do it with during the daytime when everyone else is working.
I started joining Adam4Adam, Silver Daddies (Yuck), Grindr and Bender; you name it I was on it. Adam4Adam was free and offered the most for the least at least I thought anyway. I quickly found a few guys that might fit but never found the time or place. I couldn’t host as all of our neighbors are good friends or acquaintances and some don’t work. They’d immediately ask…well you know. That is until one noon hour when I was chatting with one of my acquaintances on A4A and he asked, “what are you doing this afternoon”. My heart leaped, skipped a beat. I was really doing nothing but making more mindless phone calls. He said come over. When? 2? I said OK. From that point on, my workday in my home office was done. When I left I was more nervous than before my wedding, my senior recital, anything in recent memory. Driving there was surreal. I couldn’t believe I was doing this. After knowing I was gay since 13 or so I was going to have my first gay experience at age 57.
When I finally got there the distance between my car and the front door seemed like a mile long. I rang the doorbell and the door was opened by an average looking white guy that was about 40 years old. I later found out he was starting a nasty divorce because his wife was cheating on him and acting insanely out of character. They were more or less swingers having sex with multiple people at their place. She took off with one of the guys they met, but that’s all the detail I better go into here. My soon to be sex partner, who’s name I still don’t know now considers himself gay since his wife took off. Before that, bi. On A4A he had a photo of a huge cock on display but I get ahead of myself. I awkwardly extended my hand and said “Hi I’m ……”. He said come on in without shaking it or saying his name. Didn’t know what else to do so, I went in of course.
He knew this was my first time do to our noon hour chat so he was ready for me. His was an upscale neighborhood. I learned later that he is a medical MD. He had a fire going in the fireplace and a bottle of wine opened. I sat at the counter bar and he behind it. We chatted for a while sipping our glasses of wine. He found out more about me and I him; just enough to get relaxed, which I’m sure, was his intent. He was in full control. After about 10 minutes, might have been more or less I was so nervous, he came around the bar and stood in front of me. He looked into my eyes and I his. Then he kissed me. I felt an electric shock go through my entire body. I’d never, ever felt like that when kissed before. I readily accepted it and we kissed long and deep. Must have been for 5 minutes or so. Years of unrequited male lust flowed out of me. He started moaning. I can’t remember ever kissing anyone where they moaned so sexually, so turned on. It was awesome. He then dropped his hand to my nipples through my t-shirt. They were aroused and shortly full erect like something else was. I moaned as he caressed them. A second later his hand went to my crotch. My cock was rock hard and another huge shock ran through my body. I returned the favor and felt his huge member underneath the gym shorts he has wearing. He moaned as much as I did. He suggested he move things to his bedroom. I was hot and ready.
In retrospect, I’d wished here that we’d undressed each other but he started to undress so I did too. He kept his boxers on so I kept my briefs on. We proceeded to kissing and fondle each other but skin-to-skin in bed, which was so much sexier. We explored each other. I nibbled his earlobes and tongue his ear. My wife likes this so figured he would. He did. He proceed down to my nipples, licking them sucking them and teasingly biting them as well. He kissed my chest, licked at my navel and pulled my shorts off. My cock, fully erect popped up happily. I remember him saying, “Your wife doesn’t like THIS”! I’m about 7.5” and my cock curves up like a big fat banana. He tugged at it and let it slap against my abdomen. He laughed. I was very turned on. The most I’d been in years, decades. He started to tease my cock head flicking his tongue over it. Then going over the backside of my member, the special V area that has all those wonderful nerves. The more I’ve read on EP and elsewhere, the more I curse my parents for having me circumcised. I’d rather have been uncut to have that extra erogenous zone, the ability to jack off just using a foreskin. I’m sorry I had my sons cut now too. Oh well I digress again. After teasing me he starts to suck and stroke me, hard, steady, sometimes fast sometimes slow. I loved it, moaning, my eyes rolling around in my head. He stopped. That gave me the perfect opportunity to return the favor. The only thing of course, I’ve never sucked a cock…, which he knew.
I switched with him pulled down his boxers and got a little surprise. In his A4A profile you could see his full cock head with a condom on. What I found was he was uncut. I’d seen tons of photos loving porn, practically addicted to it now, but never in the flesh had I seen an uncircumcised penis. I wasn’t sure what to do here. I started sucking away, going up and down as I’d seen. Clumsily. He said to slow it down. I don’t know if it was because his penis was more sensitive being uncut or what. I kept on going for a few more minutes but thought I was getting nowhere. So I went back to him and starting kissing again.
He said what would you like to do. At that point I really wasn’t sure but I said I wanted to fuck him. He said OK but you’ll have to wear a condom. Only if we’re monogamous would I let you bareback me. So he put a condom on me, lubed himself and my more than stiff cock. We spooned, which I’m embarrassed to say is a position I’ve never tried with my wife. Longer story there and a different story. I got to stroking and it felt OK. Then I made the bad decision to start thinking, about my wife, about just what I was doing there and went flat. He asked what was wrong. I told him the truth. We talked a little more sipped some more wine. He said take the condom off and start over. I did. I was more at ease and it felt great. I kept stroking, faster and faster and in no time at all I told him I was going to cum.
Like a Ninja, he flipped over and had my cock in his hand and proceeded to stroke me. I knew off course he didn’t want my cum in his ass for a couple reasons. I felt that familiar awesome tensing in my groin. I was Cumming. I remember like a still photograph in my mind that as I was shooting that he somehow got every last shot I squirted out in his mouth. Swallowing, he then took my cock in his mouth and sucked the remainder out. It felt awesome. I was spent.
I lay back spent. He did as well. He did not ask me to do anything else. No reciprocation. We had some more wine talked a little. He mentioned his kids would soon be home from school so I better go. I got dressed, smiled, kissed him and left. I still don’t know his name. I’ve tried to see him again but his schedule must have changed with the changes in his life. The only time he can see me is during the weekend and with the wife home that’s impossible.
That was my first time being with a man.